Optimism
Optimists often face difficult moments like
job loss as a temporary hurdle that is within their power to overcome; whereas
for a pessimist such events become insurmountable barriers with no chance at
redemption. As optimists strive onward in pursuit of betterment despite
challenge, so does success inevitably follow - not out luck or fate but through
hard work and unwavering determination.
Fortunately, Dr Martin Seligman's research
has shown us how we can fight back and shift our thinking towards optimism -
with indisputable rewards! Studies suggest optimists enjoy better overall
health and longevity while being more resilient in difficult situations than
pessimists. With the help of Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your
Life you too could reap those benefits from embracing an optimistic outlook on
life; expanding your horizons for greater fulfillment.
When life throws a curveball, ABC's of
Optimism equips you with the tools to face difficult situations in an
optimistic and realistic way. Developed by Dr. Martin Seligman, this framework
consists of five easy steps: Adversity (identify any problems), Beliefs (our
thoughts about the adversity), Consequences (actions taken due to our beliefs)
Disputation/Distancing/Distracting - arguing with yourself for evidence against
your belief or alternative perspectives on the problem). With these strategies,
it is possible to find hope through even trying times!
There is a way to combat the negative beliefs
that we cling to - it's called distancing and distracting. Instead of allowing
these thoughts take over, stand back and defend yourself against them. To do
this you can use an external tool like snapping on elastic band when they come
up or any other physical or mental technique which will help break away from
pessimism. It takes some effort but doing so allows us to move towards more
positive outlooks!
Discover how energization can arise when we dispute
our pessimistic thoughts and choose a path filled with optimism! Through this
exercise, explore what it takes to have faith - even in situations without
clarity. Take 15 minutes to investigate both sides, so that instead of taking
one step back into darkness, you're able take two leaps forward towards light.
The VET process can help identify and
befriend our emotions. Validation allows us to acknowledge the emotion
in order to name it, no matter what form or intensity it takes. Then by
exploring why we're feeling this way, we gain useful insights into ourselves
which leads to transformation of that emotion into a positive outcome for all
involved!
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